Life without sex: Large-scale study links sexlessness to physical, cognitive, and personality traits, socioecological factors, and DNA

A Abdel Abdellaoui L Laura W. Wesseldijk (Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam) S Scott D. Gordon J Joëlle A. Pasman (Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam) D Dirk J. A. Smit (Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam) R Renáta Androvičová (Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam) N Nicholas G. Martin F Fredrik Ullén (Department of Cognitive Neuropsychology, Max Planck Institute for Empirical Aesthetics) M Miriam A. Mosing (Department of Cognitive Neuropsychology, Max Planck Institute for Empirical Aesthetics) B Brendan P. Zietsch (Centre for Psychology and Evolution, School of Psychology, University of Queensland) K Karin J. H. Verweij (Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam)

Abstract

Romantic (typically sexual) relationships are important to personal, physical, mental, social, and economic well-being, and to human evolution. Yet little is known about factors contributing to long-term lack of intimate relationships. We investigated phenotypic and genetic correlates of never having had sex in ~400,000 UK residents aged 39 to 73 and ~13,500 Australian residents aged 18 to 89. The strongest associations revealed that sexless individuals were more educated, less likely to use alcohol and smoke, more nervous, lonelier, and unhappier. Sexlessness was more strongly associated with physical characteristics (e.g., upper body strength) in men than in women. Sexless men tended to live in regions with fewer women, and sexlessness was more prevalent in regions with more income inequality. Common genetic variants explained 17% (SE = 4%) and 14% (SE = 3%) of variation in sexlessness in men and women, with a genetic correlation between sexes of 0.56 (SE = 0.17). Polygenic scores predicted a range of related outcomes in the Australian dataset. Our findings uncover multifaceted correlates of human intimacy and raise important lines of enquiry in the evolutionary and social sciences.

Article Details

Volume / Issue Vol. 122, Issue 38
Published September 23, 2025
ISSN 0027-8424
Publisher National Academy of Sciences

Authors (11)

A

Abdel Abdellaoui

L

Laura W. Wesseldijk

Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam

S

Scott D. Gordon

J

Joëlle A. Pasman

Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam

D

Dirk J. A. Smit

Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam

R

Renáta Androvičová

Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam

N

Nicholas G. Martin

F

Fredrik Ullén

Department of Cognitive Neuropsychology, Max Planck Institute for Empirical Aesthetics

M

Miriam A. Mosing

Department of Cognitive Neuropsychology, Max Planck Institute for Empirical Aesthetics

B

Brendan P. Zietsch

Centre for Psychology and Evolution, School of Psychology, University of Queensland

K

Karin J. H. Verweij

Department of Psychiatry, Amsterdam University Medical Center, University of Amsterdam